The recent success of certain adult novels has inspired women all over the country to spice up their sex life. However, for others, these novels have actually put them off trying new things and certain people feel that the characters in these books have portrayed the likes of bondage in completely the wrong light.

For some, the idea of being a submissive bondage partner is appealing, but it can be very easy for characters in books who are submissive to come across as weak or as people merely not attuned to how liberating sex should be.

Therefore, for those who may have been put off from the likes of bondage by reading such books, it is wise to remember that being a submissive partner does not actually show any propensity for weakness, but instead is actually about asserting your sexual desires, albeit it in a different way.

For those who want to spice up their sex life, it may often be best to start things off slowly. Using vibrators and other adult sex toys with your partner will be a great way to get into the swing of things, and from here it is very much worth doing a little bit of research into bondage before you dive in.

Reading the experiences of those who are very experienced in bondage will help you understand what it is really like and the effect it will truly have on you, your partner and on your sex life in general.

Of course, those without partners have it even easier as they may be able to experience a thing or two from someone skilled in bondage rather than simply having to read about it before they try.

So, if you are worried that bondage will be an anti-feminist act, don’t give up on the idea of swapping normal vibrators for more extreme adult sex toys. Instead, read up on what bondage is really about before you make up your mind.

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